• Alison Bulman

10 Quick Life-Changing Ways To Instantly Improve Your Relationships in 2020

Updated: Jan 11

How about some relationship resolutions to start 2020 off right?!

Here's my Top Ten List for ways you can immediately improve family, work and romantic connections this year. I start with my personal favorite, the water cooler response to "Hi, how are you?"

1-Replace empty responses like “I’m fine, ok, good...” with more descriptive emotional words for how you FEEL

2-Boldly tell people specifically what you like about them when you think it to yourself

3-Ask the question, "What do you mean by that?"

4-Notice when you lie by omission and tell the whole truth

5-Don’t interrupt

6-Speak only 50% of the time, ask questions the rest

7-Call instead of text

8-Don’t yell; name instead the hurt usually lurking beneath your anger

9-Read the Book "Getting the Love You Want" by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt

10-Sign up for my Intimacy Support Group

Bonus: For more mindful relating tips, you can subscribe to my YouTube channel or take my Intimacy Overhaul Online Course

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