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  • Writer's pictureAlison Bulman

10 Quick Life-Changing Ways To Instantly Improve Your Relationships in 2020

Updated: Jul 1, 2021

How about some relationship resolutions to start 2020 off right?!

Here's my Top Ten List for ways you can immediately improve family, work and romantic connections this year. I start with my personal favorite, the water cooler response to "Hi, how are you?"

1-Replace empty responses like “I’m fine, ok, good...” with more descriptive emotional words for how you FEEL

2-Boldly tell people specifically what you like about them when you think it to yourself

3-Ask the question, "What do you mean by that?"

4-Notice when you lie by omission and tell the whole truth

5-Don’t interrupt

6-Speak only 50% of the time, ask questions the rest

7-Call instead of text

8-Don’t yell; name instead the hurt usually lurking beneath your anger

9-Read the Book "Getting the Love You Want" by Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt

10-Take my Online Course.

Bonus: For more mindful relating tips, you can subscribe to my YouTube channel or take my Intimacy Overhaul Online Course

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