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"If you commit yourself to working with Alison, there is a good chance you will be where I am; looking back in time wondering why you didn’t do this sooner, confident in the tools you’ve acquired to live your life differently and better. The best advice I received was to get help to do this. The best decision I made was calling Alison Bulman." -Anon client
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The New Sexy: Being Emotionally Available
Getting real is a turn-on. In today's whirlwind of a world, emotional availability is like the unicorn of relationships—rarely spotted...

Alison Bulman
Jun 53 min read
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Are Defenses Undermining Your Relationships?
In the intricate web of human connections, relationships are often defined by love, trust, and a willingness to be vulnerable. Yet,...

Alison Bulman
Jun 34 min read
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How to Embrace Vulnerability to Build Authentic Business Relationships
In today's competitive business world, the race for success often sacrifices genuine connections. Many professionals fear showing...

Alison Bulman
May 203 min read
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Why Pre-Marital Counseling is as Essential as a Medical Check-Up for Lasting Love
In today’s fast-paced world, relationships face numerous pressures. Preparing for marriage—that central commitment of life—is crucial....

Alison Bulman
May 173 min read
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My Dating & Couples Communication Secrets Revealed at Cornell University's Virtual Spring Mixer - Now on YouTube
Recently, I had the incredible opportunity to share my insights on couples communication during a talk at Cornell University. As a...

Alison Bulman
May 134 min read
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Breathe Through Social Anxiety
If you struggle with social phobia, here's something to help you cope! Restricting our breathing is a natural reaction to scary social...

Alison Bulman
Jun 10, 20241 min read
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The EnlightenMENt Event
Last night, Garden City’s Goddess Loft featured a panel of three amazing men, talk show style: Psychic Nick @nvlodat1 The Cake Don...

Alison Bulman
Jun 8, 20242 min read
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Research Shows Mindful Communication Improves Relationships
I have long known the incredible benefits of mindful communication from first meeting my husband at a Mindful Meetup 9 years ago in the...

Alison Bulman
May 30, 20241 min read
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Monday Night Circling in Manhattan
Monday Circling at Manhattan’s Gestalt Associates for Psychotherapy led by Vincenzo Minino. What an incredible night of a practice that...

Alison Bulman
May 28, 20241 min read
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Create the Juiciest Conversations with Anyone by Talking Vulnerably about the Present Moment
If you are not being vulnerable, you're going to run out of things to talk about. Conversations run bone dry. Signaling that walls are...

Alison Bulman
May 27, 20241 min read
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Everyone’s Secret Self-Loathing
There’s one vulnerable share that everyone can relate to - When I’ve done this exercise in my intimacy workshop, where you stand in a...

Alison Bulman
May 26, 20241 min read
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How to address the Mental Load Problem in Relationships
A common problem for couples is the unequal distribution of tasks required to run a household and family, and the resulting resentment...

Alison Bulman
May 24, 20241 min read
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Calling All Single Ladies: Announcing New “Calling in the One” Online Book Support Group!
-Are you a single woman sick of dating apps? -Have you had lots of dead end dates? -Are friends moving forward and getting married while...

Alison Bulman
May 19, 20242 min read
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Goddess Loft
Spent the day with these goddess ladies at Garden City’s Goddess Loft at co-owner, Mirv’s “Own Your Awesomeness” workshop. My main...

Alison Bulman
May 18, 20241 min read
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Exciting News! Now Seeing Clients In-Person…
Transforming lives: Introducing my new in-person therapy office in Garden City, Long Island! Virtual sessions still available, but...

Alison Bulman
May 17, 20241 min read
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You’re Getting Divorced. But You Don’t Have to go Through it Alone. And You Shouldn’t.
Demand for mental health services is at an all-time high. Thank you so much to Divorce Attorney Wendy Samuelson of Samuelson Hause PLLC...

Alison Bulman
May 16, 20241 min read
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The Power of Mindful Communication for Women in Business
It was a deeply moving experience to host the Sisterpreneur Circle at Garden City’s gorgeous Goddess Loft. Business women got super real...

Alison Bulman
May 15, 20241 min read
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Cornellians Magazine: ASK THE EXPERT In this Love-Oriented Month, Tips on ‘Mindful Communication
A couple’s therapist and CALS alum offers advice on how to bring your relationship to the next level—or revive one that’s flagging.

Alison Bulman
Feb 16, 20241 min read
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Jan 24, 20240 min read
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What happened when I lived four days inside a Buddhist Monastery
I entered the modern shingled building atop the Vermont mountains and intuitively knew to move slower as I opened the door. I quietly...

Alison Bulman
Sep 5, 20221 min read
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New Singles Support Group
Do you... worry you'll never find the right match but feel tired of looking? feel isolated and alone, like the only one who hasn't...

Alison Bulman
Jul 1, 20212 min read
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The two strongest predictors of a successful (happy) relationship:
Lots of factors play a part in determining whether a relationship will work or not. But two are especially accurate predictors of...

Alison Bulman
Aug 7, 20201 min read
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Upcoming Intimacy in Recovery Support Group
Message me soon if you're interested in joining my next zoom Intimacy in Recovery Support Group. There are a few spots left if you're...

Alison Bulman
Jul 8, 20202 min read
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