Media & Testimonials
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September 29, 2026
"I Went to Cornell. What Happened at Chi Phi Didn't Shock Me."
In this first-person essay, Alison shares about attending Cornell University in the late 90's
and the frat culture that impacted her life and the Jane Does reacting to the Cornell 7 Case.
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November 7, 2025
"I'm a Couples Therapist: These Are Six Secrets to Finding True Love"
Alison weighs in on [topic] and offers practical guidance on [the takeaway].
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February 15, 2024
Cornell Alumni Magazine
​"In This Love-Oriented Month, Tips on 'Mindful Communication'"
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Speaking Engagements:
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Alison presents in-person and online about Lovitation™,
mindful communication, relationships, recovery, and intimacy.
Past engagements include:
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Cornell University
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Eastern Group Psychotherapy Society (EGPS) Annual Conference, three consecutive years​
Media Inquiries
Alison is available for interviews, expert commentary, podcasts, panels, therapist CE trainings, and keynote presentations.
alisonbulman@gmail.com​​​​
TESTIMONIALS
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“I cannot recommend Alison Bulman's Lovitation™ Workshop enough for a truly unique, transformative experience."
"I felt deeply aware of my engrained insecurity and self-consciousness, especially during the eye-gazing exercises. The second time I attended, there was a huge shift - I no longer feared looking into peoples' eyes. I was rejuvenated by a new freedom to approach others with love and a genuine desire to be helpful.
Alison's skilled facilitation guides people to feel truly seen as their authentic selves, while supporting them to let go of old ideas. Ultimately, all I want is to give and receive love, so I'm immensely grateful for Alison’s guidance in helping me grow out of fear and into greater connectedness and acceptance of myself and others. I can’t wait to participate again to see all my progress!"
Sydney, 27 - New York, NY
"Alison swiftly guided us through a myriad of exercises, up-close and personal. People were intrigued as they faced their personal fears. That's all part of the intimacy plan to induce natural curiosity and generate a sense of elation and liberation from the fears embodied in every human being. By the end, the formerly pensive and dubious were all smiling, wholly transcended into a relaxed and jovial frame of mind." Patrick, 46 - New York, NY
"I have attended several Lovitation™ Workshops over the years. I always come away feeling raw and open in a good way. I’m encouraged to confront my fears and take risks by laying myself bare before another human being. Paired with a beautiful woman and staring into her eyes, I battle many anxieties. Am I disgusting, creepy? But none of my partners have ever run away screaming. In fact, most of them have reacted very positively. And I've learned that they are just as anxious, insecure, and scared as I am. Knowing this helps me to not feel so different. I really can’t say enough good things about Alison’s workshop. It has helped me grow in many ways and I look forward to attending it again and again in the coming years." Daniel, 43 - New York,NY
"The Lovitation™ Workshop is like mindful speed dating. It's an opportunity for authenticity, it tamed my monkey mind, and I met a super-hot guy." Ella, 34 - New York, NY
I've had some apprehension going in but Alison has a wonderful way of easing into the different activities, talking you through them, and making everyone feel extremely comfortable and safe. I highly recommend you get to one." Dave, 38, New York, NY
"Both Lovitation™ Workshops I’ve attended have been powerful, moving experiences. I’ve grown and realized my intimacy "walls," learned about other people in the room, and experienced what it’s like to be truly intimate and connected to another human being." Anon Male, New York, NY
"Alison leads an eye-opening exploration into areas that many don’t even think about. She provides a safe, emotionally stimulating, playful atmosphere for examination. The workshop had me thinking about the levels of intimacy in my life for days." Dayton, 53 - New York, NY
