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"If you commit yourself to working with Alison, there is a good chance you will be where I am; looking back in time wondering why you didn’t do this sooner, confident in the tools you’ve acquired to live your life differently and better. The best advice I received was to get help to do this. The best decision I made was calling Alison Bulman." -Anon client
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Upcoming Intimacy in Recovery Support Group
Message me soon if you're interested in joining my next zoom Intimacy in Recovery Support Group. There are a few spots left if you're...

Alison Bulman
Jul 8, 20202 min read
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Emotional Sobriety
I spent most of my life having no idea what this was costing me.: My soul ached in the wrong relationships, the safe jobs I tolerated,...

Alison Bulman
May 7, 20202 min read
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This Authentic Life Podcast: Falling in Love, Sexy Rage, and Circling
I'm so grateful to Jason Digges, Authentic Relating Training International Co-Founder, for having me on This Authentic Life podcast.......

Alison Bulman
Apr 21, 20201 min read
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Acceptance
When I accepted I was an alcoholic, it was like falling face forward into a pool. Acceptance rolled into every crevice of my body, my...

Alison Bulman
Apr 21, 20202 min read
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Are You Single in Quarantine?
You can easily make the most of this intimate time with yourself. Now’s a perfect time to become a relationship black belt by...

Alison Bulman
Apr 10, 20201 min read
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Risk Your Truth
Our Social Sanity calls have been so good! Hear how talking about the things you hide can electrify the room - making you more beautiful,...

Alison Bulman
Apr 9, 20201 min read
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The Examined Life is Worth Living
This is one of the most intimate times we’ve ever experienced. We are alone with ourselves, or under the microscope of a spouse and our...

Alison Bulman
Apr 9, 20201 min read
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Three Massive Mistakes Couples Make that Keep them Feeling Angry and Disconnected
Psychotherapist Alison Bulman talks about the top three defenses that keep couples fighting and suggests ways to turn those conflicts...

Alison Bulman
Apr 6, 20201 min read
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Couples Quarantine Tutorial Recap
Here’s my recap from the Couples Quarantine Tutorial Vincenzo and I hosted on zoom! I offer two powerful solutions to one of the massive...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20201 min read
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How to Share Something You're Afraid to Talk About
You know when you have something you’re not bringing up to your partner and you start to get quiet, withdraw and silently stew? Here’s a...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20201 min read
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Social Sanity Through Mindful Interactions
We’ve been relishing an incredibly connected experience I want to share with as many people willing to learn - an off the hook game...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20201 min read
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Important Things to Remember to Protect your Relationships
Is the 24/7 togetherness wearing thin as a couple? Is the pandemic-related job/health/cabin fever stress building under one roof? It can...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20201 min read
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Why now's the most important time to become emotionally available.
Why now is the most important time to become emotionally available. Click here for my full intimacy online course:...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20201 min read
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Survivor's Guilt During Pandemic
You may be experiencing survivor’s guilt right now. Gratitude is important. But don’t be hard on yourself for still feeling sad or not...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20202 min read
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Avoid the Backstory
We had an amazing first circle last Sunday at Williamsburg’s human@ease. One tool we explored was, (and you can use this in your...

Alison Bulman
Mar 12, 20201 min read
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Becoming Relationship Material
Fear of intimacy and addiction often go hand-in-hand. Addiction is actually a defense - something we can hide behind and depend on...

Alison Bulman
Feb 27, 20201 min read
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No More Buts
Here’s a verbal tweek that can make you more effective. When explaining your point of view and stating something positive like I love...

Alison Bulman
Jan 30, 20201 min read
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New Emotional Sobriety Group
I’m starting a small weekly support group for people with a year or more of recovery to discuss and develop their emotional sobriety....

Alison Bulman
Jan 19, 20201 min read
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One Step Toward a More Conscious Relationship
Here’s one step you can take toward having a more conscious relationship: When you speak to your partner, avoid words like “you...

Alison Bulman
Jan 19, 20201 min read
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A Solution for the 50% Divorce Rate
"Since 1955, the divorce rate in America has hovered around 50%," explains Harville Hendrix, author of the best-selling book 'Getting the...

Alison Bulman
Nov 26, 20191 min read
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10 Quick Life-Changing Ways To Instantly Improve Your Relationships in 2020
How about some relationship resolutions to start 2020 off right?! Here's my Top Ten List for ways you can immediately improve family,...

Alison Bulman
Nov 25, 20191 min read
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Imagine Knowing What People Really Think of You.
When you think of your work and family and romantic relationships, imagine how enlightening this can be about what goes wrong in your...

Alison Bulman
Nov 25, 20192 min read
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New Video: The #1 Way to Avoid Arguing & Misunderstandings.
This tip can save the day or eve or dinner or vacation from becoming a fight. Use it at work, too, for better understanding of your boss...

Alison Bulman
Nov 24, 20191 min read
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Use This One Conversational Tip to Make Holiday Small Talk Bigger.
I have a golden nugget of holiday advice for how you can talk to people in your life. And with Thanksgiving coming up it’s a perfect time...

Alison Bulman
Nov 24, 20191 min read
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