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Important Things to Remember to Protect your Relationships
Is the 24/7 togetherness wearing thin as a couple? Is the pandemic-related job/health/cabin fever stress building under one roof? It can...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20201 min read


Why now's the most important time to become emotionally available.
Why now is the most important time to become emotionally available. Click here for my full intimacy online course:...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20201 min read


Survivor's Guilt During Pandemic
You may be experiencing survivor’s guilt right now. Gratitude is important. But don’t be hard on yourself for still feeling sad or not...

Alison Bulman
Apr 4, 20202 min read


Avoid the Backstory
We had an amazing first circle last Sunday at Williamsburg’s human@ease. One tool we explored was, (and you can use this in your...

Alison Bulman
Mar 12, 20201 min read


Becoming Relationship Material
Fear of intimacy and addiction often go hand-in-hand. Addiction is actually a defense - something we can hide behind and depend on...

Alison Bulman
Feb 27, 20201 min read


No More Buts
Here’s a verbal tweek that can make you more effective. When explaining your point of view and stating something positive like I love...

Alison Bulman
Jan 30, 20201 min read


New Emotional Sobriety Group
I’m starting a small weekly support group for people with a year or more of recovery to discuss and develop their emotional sobriety....

Alison Bulman
Jan 19, 20201 min read


One Step Toward a More Conscious Relationship
Here’s one step you can take toward having a more conscious relationship: When you speak to your partner, avoid words like “you...

Alison Bulman
Jan 19, 20201 min read


A Solution for the 50% Divorce Rate
"Since 1955, the divorce rate in America has hovered around 50%," explains Harville Hendrix, author of the best-selling book 'Getting the...

Alison Bulman
Nov 26, 20191 min read


10 Quick Life-Changing Ways To Instantly Improve Your Relationships in 2020
How about some relationship resolutions to start 2020 off right?! Here's my Top Ten List for ways you can immediately improve family,...

Alison Bulman
Nov 25, 20191 min read


Imagine Knowing What People Really Think of You.
When you think of your work and family and romantic relationships, imagine how enlightening this can be about what goes wrong in your...

Alison Bulman
Nov 25, 20192 min read


New Video: The #1 Way to Avoid Arguing & Misunderstandings.
This tip can save the day or eve or dinner or vacation from becoming a fight. Use it at work, too, for better understanding of your boss...

Alison Bulman
Nov 24, 20191 min read


Use This One Conversational Tip to Make Holiday Small Talk Bigger.
I have a golden nugget of holiday advice for how you can talk to people in your life. And with Thanksgiving coming up it’s a perfect time...

Alison Bulman
Nov 24, 20191 min read


Why You Should Make Smiling Your First Instinct.
It's one of the 10 Things Authentic People Do Differently... according to Higher Perspective, in their recent article about how “People...

Alison Bulman
Nov 22, 20192 min read


Make 2020 the Year You Busted Through Your Intimacy Blocks and Attracted Everything You Want.
"I notice a sort of magnetism drawing beautiful, positive people into my life. This would not have been possible if Alison had not pushed...

Alison Bulman
Nov 21, 20191 min read


The Hidden Way We Sabotage Our Success.
What are the stories you're telling yourself about what people think of you? How are they sabotaging your success and interfering with...

Alison Bulman
Jun 10, 20191 min read


Elton John Got Vulnerable in his Radically Honest Film.
"It had to be as honest as possible," Elton John says in this clip about his brave new film, "Rocketman". "The lows were very low, the...

Alison Bulman
Jun 9, 20191 min read


We Are Scared of Each Other.
We humans are often scared of each other. And yearning to be liked and accepted. This fact can explain all kinds of strange or withdrawn...

Alison Bulman
Jun 7, 20191 min read


Naples: The Happiest City
The most striking part of this place aside from the stunning architecture, the outrageously good food, classic music, art....is the...

Alison Bulman
Apr 9, 20192 min read


Human Connection Answered the Riddle for me.
My head is spinning. In a good way. I had my last day at my clinic job as a therapist the last two years - I’m leaving to focus all my...

Alison Bulman
Apr 2, 20192 min read


Shooting My Online Course from My Bedroom
Shooting my online course from my bedroom! Bring the Zen to your relationships (and to bed). Mindfulness and meditation ground and...

Alison Bulman
Mar 31, 20191 min read


Mindfulness Manifested My Soulmate: How We Keep Our Relationship Conscious.
I wrote a post the other day about my partner and I having a fight. Some of you know our story - how we met in a meditation community and...

Alison Bulman
Mar 26, 20191 min read


New Video: How to Overcome Your Intimacy Issues and Attract Everything You Want.
I'm very happy to announce my online course comes out this Wednesday, March 27th! Overcome your intimacy issues that keep you feeling...

Alison Bulman
Mar 25, 20191 min read


Reflections on Sisterhood
I’m spending the weekend at my sister’s new house in Woodstock, NY. I wanted to take a weekend alone to re-connect with her. We just got...

Alison Bulman
Mar 23, 20192 min read
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